Blended Families: 12 Days of Christmas

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The kids are arriving tomorrow!   Since the kids are leaving on Dec 31st, we didn't want them to have to wait until the 25th to open all their gifts. That would give them 5 days with their new stuff. This year we are doing the 12 Days of Christmas. Everyday will be Christmas Morning with a gift under the tree ;) 

As a blended Army family the only tradition is that we make a new one each year. We adapt our celebrations to what works for us.  What new tradition/s are you starting this year?

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Military Stepfamilies: July the Month of the Military Stepchild?

AWC >Blended Families > Military Stepfamilies:  July the Month of the Military Stepchild?

Adrienne MayApr 19, 2012I am a step mom and military wife as well, it is an interesting mix. We are thinking about writing a story about military step-families... what has been your biggest challenge with being a step-mom and military family?

Adrienne May asked me the above question on Google+ and it got me thinking. The challenges  I face within the military lifestyle  are minimal to what my stepchildren endure  I have the support of my fellow Army Wives, stepmothers, and many Military programs.  I think I'll answer the question  "What has been the biggest challenges for children of divorced parents, when one parent deploys?"  or "What are some challenges kids face that do not live full time with their military parent?"

Remember as you are reading, this is from my personal experience with my family.  I know not all situations are the same.  I understand it may be 'different' for you.  My husband's ex-wife is not a crappy parent and my husband is not a deadbeat dad.  They are two people that fell out of love and made mistakes along the way.  Everyone is doing their best to try and do what's best for the kids.  There is no book for this.  There is no guide.  Self-righteousness gets you no where!

Sesame Street For Military Families on You Tube

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Army Wives Club loves the series of videos created by Sesame Street.  I remember using the videos when my husband deployed to Afghanistan.  It's a great way help your children understand and keep the doors of communication open.